Young and Old When is it acceptable.

I should have mentioned that previously. My whole blah operated under the assumption that these old/young arrangements are all short term in nature, where 'short" is a matter of perception.

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Sat Feb 23, 2019 6:58 am • 7 Replies • 3094 Views

Young and Old When is it acceptable.

I would take a "whatever the market will bear" philosophy here. If a 50 can find a 20 willing to have a BDSM (or any for that matter) relationship then have at it. If not, well, then the gap's to ...

Sat Feb 23, 2019 6:32 am • 7 Replies • 3094 Views

D/S relationship in public places

In reading all these posts I concur with "limits". Just because it's the latest and greatest politically-charged bullshit to balk at "offending people" there is also such a thing as good taste and ...

Sat Feb 23, 2019 2:23 am • 37 Replies • 19022 Views

D/S relationship in public places

There are boundaries that one ought to respect in public. The wearing of clothing that reveals one's roles is one thing, but masturbating in a restaurant as you mentioned, hypothetically of course, ...

Thu Feb 21, 2019 12:08 am • 37 Replies • 19022 Views

Re: What kind of Dom or sub are you?

I've been tooling around various websites looking at "types" to see what sorts of categories there are and which would seem to fit my nature. I know that types and labels are arbitrary ad only apply v ...

Thu Feb 14, 2019 4:59 am • 68 Replies • 34450 Views

A soft release

.. I like that.. 2 week probationary period .. If during that time one or the other decides the situation won't fly they can notify the other, have a discussion , and part as adults.

I also con ...

Sun Feb 10, 2019 4:05 am • 20 Replies • 8386 Views

A soft release

Yes, "needy" carries an unsavory connotation in general. "A needy baby" is one that cries a lot, cannot be set down for a minute, it seems and so-forth. This is often in the context of a mother wh ...

Mon Feb 04, 2019 1:23 am • 20 Replies • 8386 Views

Online D/s relationships

Me neither. To be perfectly honest here and no diss to anyone but I'm not going to try something I know will not work for me. I have seen it described and following orders issued by KIK or whatever e ...

Wed Jan 30, 2019 11:51 pm • 20 Replies • 11063 Views

He is leaving in 2 years

Love per se is not delusional unless one or both assume it is an unchanging feeling. From time to time I have read about nice old folks wed for more than 50 years.. Were they infatuated all that time ...

Sun Jan 27, 2019 11:48 am • 24 Replies • 10481 Views

He is leaving in 2 years

Meh. I have my moments.. and my hard line approach probably doesn't fly many people's kites but it is upsetting to see that for some reason there are those who regard The Lifestyle as something "le ...

Sun Jan 27, 2019 2:01 am • 24 Replies • 10481 Views