being rude

If they wont take the time to teach you now, what makes you think they will take the time when they are your Dom? Cut your losses and put them in the "no" column and move on.

Sat Jul 23, 2022 8:59 pm • 35 Replies • 6196 Views

Song that describes you or your feelings

Pink- The Greatest Showman

https://youtu.be/xSBzMU1QyO8

Sat Jul 09, 2022 3:58 pm • 344 Replies • 55348 Views

Questions to Subs: Thoughts on Eternity Collars, Anklets, Lock Piercings and other Permanent Items?

I loved wearing a collar but I also love the idea of matching tattoos. Something special to my Dom and myself.

Mon Jun 13, 2022 10:06 pm • 31 Replies • 10172 Views

I’m a switch in a poly relationship

This is just my opinion from being a former switch. If you are in a poly, the first question is whether or not your boyfriend is the Dominant of both of you women? He will not allow you to switch with ...

Tue Jun 07, 2022 4:12 pm • 5 Replies • 1103 Views

Are doms always tops??? ⬆ (and subs bottoms) ⬇

My thoughts...the questions is about the Dom's mindset. If the Dom controls the scene and keeps the mindset of being in control then the sub is doing what they should because it pleases their Dom, re ...

Mon May 16, 2022 3:46 pm • 87 Replies • 11857 Views

How do you connect?

Relationships failing are a fact of life. I think that when a D/s fails it is a deeper cut but we will still heal and move on. I have been here for a few years. I met my last D/s here and it lasted j ...

Mon May 16, 2022 3:29 pm • 16 Replies • 3066 Views

What's your addiction?

I go through phases of addictions. A few years ago I was addicted to reading romance novels. Then I was addicted to working, which left no time for reading. Now, I am addicted to house projects. Sadly ...

Wed Apr 27, 2022 6:15 am • 212 Replies • 31535 Views

What makes you passionate?

I am passionate about teaching kids and mentoring adults. I love opening minds to new and exciting ideas. I truly believe a day is wasted if you didn't learn something new. Embracing that we are all i ...

Wed Apr 27, 2022 6:06 am • 21 Replies • 3690 Views

Blow Jobs as punishment

Me personally...I disagree with this completely. There is so much grooming that happens within a dynamic. Grooming or training your sub's mind to associate a bj with a negative consequence seems wrong ...

Sun Aug 22, 2021 7:38 am • 23 Replies • 10317 Views

Relationship vs Dynamic

We have both. We met here and have been together over 2 years. It started with D/s and grew into a relationship. The first 1 1/2 years it was probably 60% relationship, 40% D/s. Since the beginning o ...

Sun Aug 22, 2021 7:27 am • 14 Replies • 4701 Views