Meet, Munch, Hang Out in person

When I first got into the community, it took me several months of online interaction before I ever went to an event. (I actually met someone from here before I ever went to an event. We were supposed ...

Fri Apr 16, 2021 5:45 pm • 13 Replies • 3081 Views

Simplifying D/s - question for D and s types

I can't find satisfaction long distance. I need to feel that hand around my throat, the bites on my neck, and those sweet degradations whispered in my ear

Sat Mar 27, 2021 8:58 pm • 10 Replies • 3012 Views

exceptions to asexuality (gray asexual)

Heya, I'm Jessy, I'm a nonbinary pansexual gray asexual who is currently in a relationship with a super amazing trans woman. When we first met, I told her I was asexual because I'd literally only been ...

Sat Mar 27, 2021 7:56 pm • 2 Replies • 1136 Views

BDSM in music

Little Space by Sxey!

Sun Sep 20, 2020 5:47 am • 72 Replies • 24708 Views

The deffinition game!

Ageplay: when an individula acts as either a big or a little in cgl type dynamic; may be sexual, but actually usually is not sexual.

Big: the caregiver type person in a cgl relationship that cares ...

Sat Sep 12, 2020 8:48 pm • 6 Replies • 1964 Views

Blog posts and confusion

In so confused. Why are all the blog people blogging the same things? There was an art thing, another thing, a shape of thing, and as a cage blogger who has had life get in the way of my blogging, I'm ...

Wed May 20, 2020 1:29 am • 2 Replies • 1742 Views

Scene music

So when you are doing a scene, do you prefer music or no music? If you do use music, what is your favorite genre/playlist/few songs to use?

Sat May 16, 2020 3:25 am • 6 Replies • 2642 Views

Foot play

My Daddy dom is a foot slut. He loves sniffing, looking at, licking, and kissing my beautiful feet. He loves being rushed by them, stepped on, and smacked by them. He has actually been hooked up to a ...

Sat May 16, 2020 2:11 am • 2 Replies • 2184 Views

A few things that a new submissive should know

THANK YOU for this post! My friend who is a male dom tells this to girls all the time because when they come in new and excited, they don't necessarily know what to do or expect. so THANK YOU!

Tue May 05, 2020 9:00 pm • 8 Replies • 4344 Views

Pet space

So I saw a fantastic forum post for littles and middles (which I posted in because I'm a little), and then thought, "Hey, we should do this for pets!"

So, what pet are you, what is your favorite ac ...

Tue May 05, 2020 8:56 pm • 0 Replies • 1552 Views