The difference between a blog and a forum

A public forum is a place to have an open discussion about a concern or to seek clarification on something the original poster may have. While there could be an opinion by the original poster express ...

Mon Apr 26, 2021 3:01 pm • 8 Replies • 2568 Views

Old School Protocols

In response to those users talking about having to serve as a submissive for a year before you could Dom as a tradition of the Old Guard. This was certainly NOT the case with the group I belonged to ...

Tue Apr 20, 2021 8:33 am • 31 Replies • 7633 Views

Old School Protocols

Sammy45,
Hello,
As mentioned by another poster, the article on Deviance and Desire stresses a very important point:
"First and foremost, it was a mind-set. It was a form of good manners and etique ...

Mon Apr 19, 2021 2:27 am • 31 Replies • 7633 Views

Diseases

With so many people involved do you worry about diseases? Not trying to be disrespectful just genuinely curious.

Like any dynamic, I think it is important to test for any sexually transmitted disea ...

Wed Feb 24, 2021 8:44 pm • 53 Replies • 11980 Views

Ethical Non-Monogamy

Thank you Black Earth Duke and TVS, I appreciate your clarification. I feel I have made a great decision and appreciate this blog.
-DA

Tue Feb 23, 2021 9:34 am • 53 Replies • 11980 Views

Gor

The books, after the first few (not well written btw) become far worse (I was unaware they could get worse lol) as they began pumping them out. The latest count that I am aware is 35 total.
If you ...

Sun Feb 21, 2021 7:26 pm • 14 Replies • 7109 Views

Ethical Non-Monogamy

Thank you The Velveteen Slave​. Your clarity really helps. I appreciate the feedback. It gives me a much better understanding of how a situation such as a sub having multiple Doms works.
-DA

Fri Feb 19, 2021 5:22 pm • 53 Replies • 11980 Views

Ethical Non-Monogamy

Black Earth Duke,
Thank you for this Forum post. I have just started down this road a couple months ago. I have had a few revisions to understand my own thoughts on a dynamic that would work for me ...

Fri Feb 19, 2021 2:35 pm • 53 Replies • 11980 Views

Banning unfit members

I agree on the MAC address as it literally is the unique identifier built into all modems, routers, computers, cell phones and even the smart television. The problem is the MAC address is the startin ...

Sun Feb 07, 2021 8:23 am • 6 Replies • 2315 Views

Weaponizing the tools The Cage gives us to protect ourselves

V,
I wish to in a weigh in on this forum post. I was very involved in the actual thing you spoke about but was not either Dom in question. I chose to remain still neutral to two of the three parti ...

Sat Jan 16, 2021 3:04 am • 17 Replies • 3785 Views