Checklists / Play Sessions and Relationships

I always use a questionnaire/checklist to help guage her needs, desires and limits at that moment.

It's a useful tool to revisit at stages in the relationship.

Tastes change, especially as soft ...

Wed Jul 28, 2021 11:46 pm • 6 Replies • 1950 Views

The Sun !!!!

Been out. Now I'm back in, air-con humming as I'm trying to cool down. It's forecast to hit 32C/96F today. Mid-summer in New Zealand although nowhere near as mad hot as it is over the Ditch in Aussie. ...

Mon Feb 17, 2020 12:56 am • 4 Replies • 2480 Views

Lingerie

Many years ago I had the good fortune to session with a sub who was addicted to waist control. It was a delight as she was never without a corset/bustier. I continue to fantasise about them even now. ...

Sun Feb 09, 2020 6:29 am • 53 Replies • 16968 Views

Fetishes/ Kinks

Fetishes I have. My favourite is to reward a girl with a facial to end a session ... to watch her shyly smile as she accepts My gift.

Mon Feb 03, 2020 5:20 am • 13 Replies • 5399 Views

Stockings with suspenders

I'm old and Old School. I like My girl in stockings and suspenders because they look good on as well as help her feel naughty and sexy.

As an added bonus they're difficult to keep up and straight, ...

Sat Feb 01, 2020 6:25 am • 16 Replies • 7079 Views

How did you get or pick your screen(or lifestyle) name?

So very many years ago I was a nameless individual finding My way in the pre-Net world of kink.

I was lucky enough to meet a deep-feeling submissive who had a nasty habit of thinking too much about ...

Mon Jan 06, 2020 1:09 am • 267 Replies • 94810 Views

Need help

BDSM doesn't have to involve sex. I've had many sessions were simple bondage and even talking was all that was involved.

Many have some quite horrific baggage that needs a safe outlet ... a safe, ...

Fri Jan 03, 2020 10:47 pm • 13 Replies • 6695 Views