When the hard limit comes to appearance...

This is difficult as it's something one can't control.
I know many people need to build some trust before taking this step. I did, but I don't anymore. I'm still not comfortable showing myself right ...

Sun Jun 13, 2021 11:18 pm • 12 Replies • 3644 Views

Safewords...

I agree. At the end what matters is to keep things safe, sane and consensual. Safewords are just a tool, a useful tool that should be used when needed, but it doesn't mean that not using them is neces ...

Sun Apr 12, 2020 12:11 am • 17 Replies • 4852 Views

DOMINANTS-what have you done for me lately?]

Part of the problem could be having too high expectations and also a lack of communication and patience.

When I'm talking with a potential sub I do try to use my words to convince her, of course I ...

Mon Apr 06, 2020 12:23 am • 12 Replies • 4616 Views

Which do you prefer?

Love and devotion based submission. The sub is free and voluntarily decides to submit, not because as a sub should submit to a dom but because wants to submit and give everything to that particular do ...

Mon Sep 17, 2018 11:19 am • 12 Replies • 6162 Views

Why it so hard to find a true Dominant?

Yes, it's difficult for us to find a submissive too but at the end it's a matter of time. You may have to discard a lot of people, it seems that the number of fakes and people who only want to release ...

Fri Sep 29, 2017 11:40 pm • 149 Replies • 84052 Views

Submissive and Slave

My opinion is that a sub is someone who decides by it's own to submit while a slave is a property. So the main difference would be that the slave denotes a more serious, even forced, commitment and le ...

Fri Sep 15, 2017 8:37 pm • 30 Replies • 25828 Views