http://backend.userland.com/rss092 The Cage Forum http://thecage.co/phpBB/ Forum info@thecage.co info@thecage.co Sun, 17 May 2026 04:36:11 GMT Lifestyle BDSM :: RE: I feel like you need to be a sub before being a dom http://thecage.co/phpBB/viewtopic.php?p=82103#82103 Author: <a href="/profile/143244?v=2" target="_blank">fluffypoppet</a><br /> Posted: Sun May 17, 2026 3:27 am (GMT 3)<br /> Topic Replies: 10<br /><br /> <span class="postbody">Fundamentally I disagree, but vet for what matters to you. <br /> <br /> Leadership, communication, consent, and accountability don't require a submission first approach. <br /> <br /> A philosophy that forces someone to perform outside of who and what they are is a major misalignment with my values. </span><br />