http://backend.userland.com/rss092 http://thecage.co/phpBB/ Forum info@thecage.co info@thecage.co Tue, 14 Apr 2026 11:00:12 GMT http://thecage.co/phpBB/viewtopic.php?p=81907#81907 Author: <a href="/profile/119821" target="_blank">A Cloud</a><br /> Posted: Tue Apr 14, 2026 7:54 am (GMT 3)<br /> Topic Replies: 6<br /><br /> <span class="postbody">1.) What are the 3 most important values for you in a D/s relationship? <br /> <br /> Connection (alignment, belonging, open &amp; honest communication) <br /> Respect (based on trust) <br /> Fulfilling (in that the dynamic improves life) <br /> <br /> 2.) What is your preferred method of punishment, and what about funishment? <br /> <br /> Not enough experience with straight punishment and I don’t like to do the ‘wrong’ thing or get in trouble/disappoint. I could see it working with me in certain (and clear) circumstances. I have some adversity to punishment due to past experiences and confusions. <br /> More experienced with funishment in the form of spanking, edging, orgasm denial, challenging tasks - things that I like but that can also be frustrating or extending (outside of comfort zone). Funishment does not make me break rules; it can actually help me remember protocols. <br /> <br /> 3.) What is the biggest mistake you have made as Dominant, submissive, or switch? <br /> <br /> No biggest mistake per se, but rather, some mistakes stemming from ignorance (participating without being informed or sufficiently safe), not vetting, trusting too easily and making assumptions. <br /> <br /> 4.) What is the best thing to you about being a Dominant, submissive, or switch? <br /> <br /> Depth, connection, vibrancy, belonging <br /> <br /> 5.) What is your biggest struggle in being a Dominant, submissive, or switch? <br /> <br /> The transitioning between states ie. returning to life demands and responsibilities. I don’t wanna. Transitioning between anything is hard. <br /> My duality - I hate and love it 🙄 </span><br />