Generally Speaking :: RE: Squirting: Biology, Myth, and the Pressure to Perform

Author: intenseoldman
Posted: Thu Oct 29, 2026 6:56 pm (GMT 3)
Topic Replies: 16

Thank you, Emma. I am quite curious and your reply touches what I was hoping to learn from this thread ...what a woman experiences during squirting and how it compares to other orgasms. It's fascinating to me because a woman's experience seems to vary so much more than my own.
I mean, I love to cum. The tension builds until the damn bursts, and a flood of euphoria fills me and lingers in the aftermath as my heart slowly subsides it's throbbing. It's calming therapy in which I feel settled in perfect peace with the Universe.
I've obvserved, though, that a woman's orgasm can vary so, so, much. I've experienced, quivering, body convulsions, shuddering, ejaculating, and kind of flooding like orgasms and a woman who'd have so many orgasms, one right after another, that she'd dehydrate if she didn't have lots of water on hand. I"ve never experienced the kind of squirting you see in squirt porn, though. I knew a woman once who told me about her squirting and was quite self conscious and concerned about how I would be about it if we were to get together. Unfortunately, we never did, and that had nothing to do with her squirting. In the larger context of it all, I just think about the women I've been which aren't a lot, but every one has cum in her own way,.
It was always good sex to me, and as far as not being in their minds and bodies and feeling what they feel... even though, it was different with every one, and I'm sure will be different with the next one, it seemed fulfilling for them, too.
Blondie mentioned that she can control whether she squirts or not, but your squirting sounds involuntary. That's how much womens' bodies and their experiences vary which is what I hope this thread explores more of.
As far as expectations and pressure to perform, to squirt or not to squirt, I don't know... I think it's like e.e. Cummings poem "If feeling's first, he who worries about the syntaxt of things will never wholly kiss you." If you're worried about how you cum, when you cum or how many times you cum, you're not present, and I think that's the best part of sex, being present in the pleasure of each other's pleasure. Learning and knowing each other deepens the pleasure and the connected presence. I am really most after that experience. If it comes with squirts and a cherry on top, wonderful, if it comes with shudders and shakes, wonderful... I mean it's always wonderful and always wonderful to learn more about.

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Generally Speaking :: RE: Squirting: Biology, Myth, and the Pressure to Perform