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Husband doesn't like being "too dominant

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MasterBear​(other butch)
1 week ago • Thu 07 Feb 2019 12:44:11 AM IST
MasterBear​(other butch) • Thu 07 Feb 2019 12:44:11 AM IST
If your primary cant fulfill your needs pressuring him won't help.
At some point you may start crossing boundaries of his consent.

Do you have other options?
Poly with play and mono with sex?
Geminiangel82​(sub female){Not lookin}
1 week ago • Thu 07 Feb 2019 06:15:16 AM IST
Geminiangel82​(sub female){Not lookin} • Thu 07 Feb 2019 06:15:16 AM IST
LisaLix wrote:
Same. We have been together 17 years and have a family. I dnt want this with anyone else. And I want to ensure that his needs are being met, and that he's not turned off by what turns me on ha



Im at a lost also and when i bring up about our sexual relationship he get upset. See we dont have kids but im a big part of his family. So i can understand why your so guarded.
FlipSide1481​(dom male)
1 week ago • Thu 07 Feb 2019 06:35:54 PM IST
FlipSide1481​(dom male) • Thu 07 Feb 2019 06:35:54 PM IST
Open, honest and forthright conversation about sex, kinks, etc is the way forward.

Dont rush into things or pressure. Give lots of feedback when you try new things.

Fudbar is spot on about the way I felt, and have been told others did, about D/s. Particularly when it has not been part of the relationship previously. Building that communication and forthrightness is hard.

Start slow, be safe. Maybe read a book together or try sex dice to get the conversations started.