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What to ask to a Dom

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MasterBear​(other butch)
1 week ago • Wed 13 Mar 2019 05:31:14 PM IST
MasterBear​(other butch) • Wed 13 Mar 2019 05:31:14 PM IST
Oooo!!!
This is a good one.


I say ask:

What is your personal philosophy on Mastery?
Who taught you? Or who are your idols and why?
What have your previous relationships looked like and why did they end?


My love says ask:

What happens to our dynamic if you or I get sick?
What are your long term goals after training?
FlipSide1481​(dom male)
1 week ago • Wed 13 Mar 2019 11:41:02 PM IST
FlipSide1481​(dom male) • Wed 13 Mar 2019 11:41:02 PM IST
As others have said it is a relationship first, and that is critical.

My question as far as the D/s goes would be...

"What is the best and worst experience you have had with a partner and why?"
FlipSide1481​(dom male)
1 week ago • Wed 13 Mar 2019 11:43:39 PM IST
FlipSide1481​(dom male) • Wed 13 Mar 2019 11:43:39 PM IST
And after reading Master bears loves question I am reminded.

"How does it end in healthy way or change".
movingclouds​(sadist male)
6 days ago • Thu 14 Mar 2019 09:12:01 PM IST
movingclouds​(sadist male) • Thu 14 Mar 2019 09:12:01 PM IST
I would treat it less as an interview and more as a conversation. Offering some information about yourself, your desires, thoughts and feelings, can go a long way towards starting a fruitful exchange.
premlove​(dom male)
5 days ago • Sat 16 Mar 2019 06:02:23 PM IST
premlove​(dom male) • Sat 16 Mar 2019 06:02:23 PM IST
Hi Shaynna, Prem here. I believe you are nice person. In th BDSM it totally depends upon you what kind of things excites you physically and mentally. Chose your master wisely. If you like your master to be physically dominant while in bed and mentally there for you outside the bedroom. Best of luck. If you want you can ask me anything.