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Low{BLK OWND} • Aug 13, 2019

A question for the Doms
What is your favorite way for your sub to present herself to you ?

pennywise​(dom male) • Aug 13, 2019

Nadu or Humble.

MilitantSoul​(dom male) • Aug 14, 2019

Depends on the instances and the reason she's presenting herself, kneeling not particularly in nadu just basic kneeling.

MasterBear​(other butch) • Aug 16, 2019

In a way that serves my needs and at the same time stays out of my way.
Im not a fan of kneeling.

MissBonnie​(dom female){oz} • Aug 16, 2019

Hmm can I go with ready, willing and able. being 24/7 my sub is (nearly) always ready to serve so kneeling isn't always appropriate for "service" since service doesn't really stop.....if we are doing a scene, then I'll still go with ready, willing and able and more than likely kneeling at my side or at my side waiting in a comfortable position (uncomfortable comes later! take it while it lasts lol). I'm also going to say what MasterBear said "at the same time stays out of my way. " I like to be able to move and not have to walk around my sub.

Waiting...

CherryC​(sub female) • Aug 16, 2019

My Dom will text me exactly what to set out, wear and have ready and then tell me to wait next to my ottoman kneeling with my head down and wait for him to come over. Sometimes he’s right down the street, other times it takes him whaat feels like forever. I wait, kneeling and anticipating, no matter what.

FunCouple{.-Couple-.} • Aug 16, 2019

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AKittenforSir​(sub female){JohnBond} • Aug 17, 2019

For Sir it depends on the situation/scene. As his sub, it’s usually a standard kneeling position, in M/s play its Nadu, when I’m feeling little it’s typically what some refer to as Rest (sitting legs crossed, hands in lap). He mostly just likes me to follow his instructions and be waiting still and patiently (especially because he knows inside I’m not feeling patient at all).

ShyDawn​(sub female){Taken} • Nov 1, 2019

As a sub I have not presented myself before. I want to but I don't know if my dom would understand because we are very new to BDSM. I know a bit about BDSM because of romance books. I have a great urge to present myself but I have no idea how to explain it to my dom.

AKittenforSir​(sub female){JohnBond} • Nov 1, 2019

@ShyDawn,

I’d suggest sitting down with him and looking at a guide for positions. Here is a simple one to start:

https://www.reddit.com/r/bdsm/comments/4ufjwf/submissive_pose_chart_lucinda/

Tell him you think it would be nice to have a position for you to get into at the start of a scene/play session. Explain that the position will set the mood. It symbolizes the power exchange (him sitting or standing while you kneel). He can build anticipation before a scene by making you wait in that position for him until he’s ready. It can also be a position that you can get into on your own to signal to him that you want to play.

Once you get comfortable with that you can add different positions to signify different things. Heck, it doesn’t even have to signify anything - it could just be a position that he likes to see you in because he thinks it’s sexy.