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Dominant Men vs Dominant Women -why are the rules different?

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Shiruba Doragon
10 months ago • 09/11/2019 1:19 pm


Shiruba Doragon • 09/11/2019 1:19 pm
I must say, that I have not noticed the difference that you mention. Not that I question your observation. I must admit that I have not met many openly dominant women in the BDSM world, and not had the opportunity to discuss with them. I am Dominant and not looking to be dominated. I suspect that many dominant women do not attempt to dominate others without a mutual agreement. I have come across women who are dominant and perhaps do not know themselves well enough to recognise this in themselves. On occasion such women have attempted to dominate me only to be rejected. I vote with my feet and avoid them where ever possible.
No Body​(neither male)
10 months ago • 09/13/2019 4:40 am
No Body​(neither male) • 09/13/2019 4:40 am
I have known only a few Dommes and many Doms. The real ones never ask for anything because it is beneath to so so. It is telling them you're their Queen but you have to take care of them and they can't do it on their own. Tell one of these Ladies that and see where you wake up. Tell a Domme she has to let you take take care of her ? Yea right. There are women who are only looking for a cash cock. As long as you send them money and gifts your ok but as soon as you stop it is over. I was at a bar one night and a Domme I knew was about to get in a fight with a drunk guy. My friend asked if I was going to help her. I said no I was not going to disrespect her like that. I finally did after his woman jumped in and she looked at me and just said "just going to stand there?". Got a small scar on the back of my head from a beer bottle. I hope you see the point. There are just things you just don't do or say to some people unless asked or told. One of them being that a woman needs a man or his help without being asked for it .
Azzabackam​(other male){PawPawGirl}
10 months ago • 09/13/2019 9:39 am
Azzabackam​(other male){PawPawGirl} • 09/13/2019 9:39 am
Ok, I'll be honest: I have no bloody idea what you're talking about, dude. Like... there's no cohesion here. The title suggests you're comparing male and female Dominant members of the community, but you only talked about women. You brought up one type of lifestyle (with a fairly derisive tone to your writing, though that might've been unintentional), then dropped an anecdote that had NOTHING to do with the lifestyle, mentioned a scar that was irrelevant to it all, and that was it.

So... yeah. This was just a big block of nonsense.
MstressWhipplash​(dom female)
9 months ago • 09/17/2019 3:58 am
MstressWhipplash​(dom female) • 09/17/2019 3:58 am
People are different, talk to an individual you like the look of.

We are not hive mind, there is zero Dominant's rule book.

I look at the person first.

Mistress Whipplash Ma'am