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Do true subs males exist anymore? This was asked in sub women for males but I would like to see the

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middlekek​(sub male)
3 weeks ago • Sat 23 Nov 2019 10:00:25 PM IST
middlekek​(sub male) • Sat 23 Nov 2019 10:00:25 PM IST
I'm a guy who is super submissive almost to a fault. However, it's hard to shake the convention that it's supposed to be the man making the woman orgasm during a vanilla sexual encounter, not vice versa. Think about how much talk there is about "lasting longer" or making the woman orgasm multiple times before the man does. I notice that that appears in porn as the male being dominant with the woman, but that doesn't need to be the standard. I do however think that men feel a need to label themselves as a switch because they feel the need to be dominant in some respects because of this convention, instead of being a pure submissive. You can still pleasure a dominant woman just as much as a submissive one.
Wolfy13​(sub male){DarkFox}
3 weeks ago • Sat 23 Nov 2019 10:51:45 PM IST
Wolfy13​(sub male){DarkFox} • Sat 23 Nov 2019 10:51:45 PM IST
Well i mean, i think so ^.^; i consider myself to be one icon_smile.gif and from my perspective, it seems harder to find actual male/female Dom/Dommes than anything haha it seems to me that every one from every part of the bdsm community seems to be wondering where their counterpart is ^.^; subs "where are the Dom/Dommes?" Littles "Where are Dayy's/Mommies?" Gay Dom/ F Dommes "where are the good male subs?" Haha i wonder why that is.
middlekek​(sub male)
3 weeks ago • Sat 23 Nov 2019 11:24:31 PM IST
middlekek​(sub male) • Sat 23 Nov 2019 11:24:31 PM IST
Yikes dude, you should get out more. Go for a long walk or something 😬
MissBonnie​(dom female){}
3 weeks ago • Mon 25 Nov 2019 02:03:14 AM IST
MissBonnie​(dom female){} • Mon 25 Nov 2019 02:03:14 AM IST
middlekek wrote:
Yikes dude, you should get out more. Go for a long walk or something 😬


I just wanted to say the post that this comment refers to was removed (it was rather ..hmm nasty! so might of been removed for being against site rules)
The comment quoted isn't in reference to the post above it. icon_smile.gif
iblocoxforyou​(sub male){...not yet}
2 weeks ago • Mon 02 Dec 2019 03:29:42 PM IST
iblocoxforyou​(sub male){...not yet} • Mon 02 Dec 2019 03:29:42 PM IST
Good day,
It's with some trepidation i offer an answer here on many levels ... #1 - being that im still somewhat new to being "officially" identified a sub male ... #2 - Often ones perception of themselves dont reflect what other may see.

That being said, i truly believe that when i look in a mirror i see a "true sub" even though i consider my service and adoration going beyond the traditional "awaiting the call" type submission ... i find it my goal, responsibility and pleasure to try and take care of the woman in my life in every way - including beyond a physical asset.
sissybitchsub​(sub male)
1 week ago • Mon 02 Dec 2019 11:15:27 PM IST
sissybitchsub​(sub male) • Mon 02 Dec 2019 11:15:27 PM IST
True male subs definitely exist. They are just afraid to be known because of the way society looks at them. I think it’s more difficult finding a true woman dom who is just not looking to take advantage of you financially.
MsEbonyAngela​(dom female){Looking to}
1 week ago • Tue 03 Dec 2019 01:23:49 AM IST
MsEbonyAngela​(dom female){Looking to} • Tue 03 Dec 2019 01:23:49 AM IST
I have come across many that will label themselves switch rather than sub to hold back submission and because they can't fully trust and commit to being sub. Also, dealt with one recently that also has trust issues and both of us thought were sub, but upon looking at actions and examining his thoughts closer is really bottom even though enjoys pleasing.
MissBonnie​(dom female){}
1 week ago • Tue 03 Dec 2019 08:08:27 AM IST
MissBonnie​(dom female){} • Tue 03 Dec 2019 08:08:27 AM IST
ericfraser wrote:
True male subs definitely exist. They are just afraid to be known because of the way society looks at them. I think it’s more difficult finding a true woman dom who is just not looking to take advantage of you financially.


if you find them here report them, it is against the rules here. The staff are wonderful at removing FinDom but every so often some do slip through.
MsEbonyAngela​(dom female){Looking to}
1 day ago • Sat 14 Dec 2019 06:38:36 PM IST
MsEbonyAngela​(dom female){Looking to} • Sat 14 Dec 2019 06:38:36 PM IST
IndenturedServitude wrote:
Yes we do. But Domme's do not believe us or do not trust us.


That's because some spoil it for the rest. For example, for me it's easier to use Molly maids service and avoid the hassle of finding a service slave I can trust in my home.