3 weeks ago • Sat 23 Nov 2019 10:00:25 PM IST
middlekek(sub male) • Sat 23 Nov 2019 10:00:25 PM IST
I'm a guy who is super submissive almost to a fault. However, it's hard to shake the convention that it's supposed to be the man making the woman orgasm during a vanilla sexual encounter, not vice versa. Think about how much talk there is about "lasting longer" or making the woman orgasm multiple times before the man does. I notice that that appears in porn as the male being dominant with the woman, but that doesn't need to be the standard. I do however think that men feel a need to label themselves as a switch because they feel the need to be dominant in some respects because of this convention, instead of being a pure submissive. You can still pleasure a dominant woman just as much as a submissive one.