At which age did you realize your submission or Dominance?
2 weeks ago • 07/27/2020 10:36 pm
kajirasubm(sub female) • 07/27/2020 10:36 pm
I was asked this question once, and it gave me pause.
My submission was simply natural to me.
Yet I began thinking ...what a great question -
When was my defining moment?
There was this one boy whom I had such a crush on.
He held himself differently from all the others.
And was a bit of a lone wolf.
Friendly with everyone, but held himself apart.
He was well respected though.
His eyes were icy green and my heart would skip beats whenever he was near.
Our lockers were in the same row.
He at one end. I at the other.
One day I was running a bit late for class and trying to get my locker open, put books in and take out the ones I needed.
He walked over and very calmly said " let me"
He opened the locker, took the books from my hands and asked which ones I needed.
Did I answer???
I couldn't even breathe, let alone speak!
He carried my books to the class , and was waiting outside when my class ended.
Carried my books to the locker.
Asked me to have lunch with him.
When we got to the lunchroom , I explained to him that I never eat lunch, but of course I wanted to sit with him.
He quietly looked at me, and went to buy his lunch.
Brought back a strawberry dannon yogurt for me.
One word " eat."
More words " you'll eat lunch everyday with me."
Walked me to all my classes and met me afterwards.
By the end of the day, as he walked me to my school bus - he said " something about you , makes me want to take care of you "
Now back then, 14 was still 14.
We were simply good friends.
In retrospect, I realized that was the defining moment for me, in terms of whom I responded to and, " the why."
I will add that was my first encounter with a Dominant.
Interestingly we were both naturally drawn to each other.
When did you come to the realization of your submission or Dominance ?
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