1 week ago • 11/21/2020 10:02 pm
Taramafor(sub male) • 11/21/2020 10:02 pm
Quote: No one touches me when I am out and about in real life, fella.
Then perhaps you'd care to explain how you interact with anyone at all if they not a part of real life. The truth is you do let people touch you when there is communication established and a desire to engage with them. They are real people. In life. Can you disagree with that statement? And if so, why?
And yes. "Out and about". But as I said. Strangers. Or as close as makes little difference. That is what you meant by out and about, right?
And if you do know people that want to engage with you, that could make you melt if you let them, then this leaves the question of why you wouldn't let them if you know you'll enjoy yourself. Melt means "Making you feel appreciated and seeing to your masochist needs". In your case.
Quote: A sub wants direction, a dom feels the need to give it.
Of course. But in order to make one happen the other needs to be established too. Not just with others, but also ourselves. You also have to take into account that either can have a bad day and needs support from the "other area". If a sub can't give direction to a dom when they need it, then they can't support the dom. If a dom can't trust in a subs "flow" then they don't trust in their direction. Or otherwise don't know how to go with that flow. That's a possibility too.