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SoMuchTrouble​(dom male)
2 months ago • 02/14/2021 6:44 pm
SoMuchTrouble​(dom male) • 02/14/2021 6:44 pm
So like many people said, context is key. Some basic questions that sound like they’re important: Are you monogamous? If so, then yes I would think this is inappropriate. Using the phrase “Good girl” implies a form of taking someone’s leash. It constitutes some amount of ownership/belonging in the conversation and unless that’s within the realm of your agreements I think that’s not really ok...

Now, all that said, don’t approach your conversation with him as “You broke the sacred vows of the one twue BDSM!” Or anything like that. If you talk about your upset and hurt from that place you’ll be making things much worse and potentially badly erode your power dynamic. Talk to your Daddy about how it made you feel, how it isn’t what you’re comfortable with, and that it’s outside your agreements, but don’t try to bully him with group think rules into submission.

Hope that helps.