|LittleEnbee(sub gender queer)||
BDSM, Sexuality, Comfort, An Intro.
3 months ago • 04/04/2021 10:19 am
LittleEnbee(sub gender queer) • 04/04/2021 10:19 am
Hello, Im new here. My predicament with BDSM is the fact that I'm asexual, so I will not be partaking in sexual actions, but some things I still find interest in- in a non-sexual, rather comforting manner.
Things like LittleSpace and PetPlay can be seen as a coping mechanism. However I also like things like shibari, for both aesthetic purposes, and also comfort, as I see being tied in extensive rope much like a hug. Other things could possibly be done in non-sexual manner, such as sensory-play.
Sex in BDSM helps with dopamine and seratonin release however, and I definately see BDSM as a means of releasing those chemicals without sex.
I would much appreciate if anyone on here could help a newbie out, maybe help re-word this if the post seems confusing.