2 weeks ago • 04/24/2021 5:26 am
SubtleHush(sub female) • 04/24/2021 5:26 am
"Keep in mind that just because someone may show characteristics of being a Dom, they still may not necessarily be ready to be, or recognize in themselves, that they are a Dom."
There are also dominant vanilla men who have no interest in kinks or fetishes.
They can be boring in bed. Simple in their view of life and still have the dominance you will see or sense.
A lot of people like to play at being 'turned' by some kinky person when they were vanilla. But we have rules about non-consensual exposure to kink. People are supposed to provide informed consent to what we bring. So forget the hidden under that suit is a kink-driven Dominant powerhouse myth.
Just socializing and meeting people who claim to be dominant or submissive does not mean they are, or that they are as you would measure it. And be careful of helpful Doms who want to train you and mentor you.