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What are your fetishes?

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Lycrasub​(sub male)
9 months ago • Sun 20 May 2018 06:16:32 PM IDT
Lycrasub​(sub male) • Sun 20 May 2018 06:16:32 PM IDT
I am a male gay lycra man that loves to be a sub to my master. I want a man that tells me what lycra I will wear for the next day. I will be totally in lycra in public to serve my master. I love to be mumiffied also.
1crazygirl​(sub female){unowned/si}
7 months ago • Tue 10 Jul 2018 12:08:31 AM IDT
1crazygirl​(sub female){unowned/si} • Tue 10 Jul 2018 12:08:31 AM IDT
I typically use the dictionary for anything I am not on sure footing with the clear definition and I tend to agree with the above @ euryale(sub female)
3 months ago • Fri Mar 16, 2018 4:53 pm
"That's quite a list, but I can't be the only one who thinks fetlife's very broad idea of "fetishes" is a bit off base and confusing" and what @Fudbar is stating in his post....
I went to Merriam-Webster for the actual definition of FETISH:
Definition of fetish
1 a : an object (such as a small stone carving of an animal) believed to have magical power to protect or aid its owner; broadly : a material object regarded with superstitious or extravagant trust or reverence
b : an object of irrational reverence or obsessive devotion : prepossession
c : an object or bodily part whose real or fantasied presence is psychologically necessary for sexual gratification and that is an object of fixation to the extent that it may interfere with complete sexual expression.

That being defined I feel a fetish is almost a need not a want......to have sex......or a high high sexually wanted desire that is bordering on need and must have an, almost always be present thing/bodily part in order to complete the gratification....
I can't say that I have anything under those guidelines.....
I have lots of kinky turn-ons lots of naughty kinky not vanilla things I like to do in sex......but even some of those things I am finding are becoming more mainstream.....

I know I do need one thing my one fetish is having a Dominate partner.....I will not have sexual gratification sometimes will not even participate without one.....
My Fetish is I need a Dominate Partner.....
DamCx​(dom male)
7 months ago • Tue 10 Jul 2018 03:29:13 PM IDT
DamCx​(dom male) • Tue 10 Jul 2018 03:29:13 PM IDT
My main fetishes are pantyhose, lycra and heels
boyDJ​(masochist gender queer){When I'm i}
5 months ago • Fri 07 Sep 2018 02:07:48 AM IDT
boyDJ​(masochist gender queer){When I'm i} • Fri 07 Sep 2018 02:07:48 AM IDT
Converse All-Star canvas hi-top gym shoes.

And blue jeans.

And acting as the naughty boy being taken to his bedroom & laying down, lowering those blue jeans and getting a good, old fashioned bare bottom whipping with a belt.

I like performing fellatio.

I like getting topped (fucked).

If I could find all of this in a Sir, preferably local, it would be bliss!
Patches Barbs​(switch female)
1 month ago • Sun 13 Jan 2019 06:26:53 PM IST
Patches Barbs​(switch female) • Sun 13 Jan 2019 06:26:53 PM IST
I love tickling #1st and most (both giving/receiving), bondage, teasing/edging, light touch, sensual touching (slow kissing, licking, fondling, grazing w my teeth, anything light and goosebump raising hehe) ... Orgasm control/making the person beg from edging/teasing them to the brink and holding them there as much as I can : D Or receiving the same... I like to wear nylons, lingerie, corsets, and cosplay; bimbofication. I like playfulness and games and sexy banter, dirty talk as long as not too nasty/mean-spirited or degrading.
Gentle femdom but not everything to do with it lol. Nipple play/rubbing especially during oral (giving but especially receiving). Sensual touch or play with soft/tickly objects caressing or them being slowly moved over the skin ... (paint or makeup brushes, feathers, powder puff, fur, velvet, tassells) .. ok I'm all turned on now from writing this icon_biggrin.gif

Curious about cfnm, f/f tickling experiences and lesbian sex/oral both giving and receiving, milking tables (giving, lightly stroke and tease a guy til he's so hard and desperate he's dripping and begging me lol) glory holes same idea lol, being teased with vibrators/teasing other women with them, getting foot worshipped

Hard limits too many to name probably lmao but breath play, anal, anything pain, anything involving urine/other body fluids or toilet functions, DDlg or other age play, electricity, blood/needles, incest roleplay, anything not hot and teasy and non painful lol

Soft limit: pet play unless very mild (I will pet/carress your head/hair and call you a good boy or girl if you really love that sort of thing lol; I will not lead you around on a leash and make you eat dogfood or drink from a bowl lmao)
Dark Fox​(dom female){Wolfy13}
1 month ago • Sun 13 Jan 2019 07:14:05 PM IST
Dark Fox​(dom female){Wolfy13} • Sun 13 Jan 2019 07:14:05 PM IST
Since a fetish is a /need/ for sexual gratification, I honestly don't think I have any fetishes. Unless just straight up intercourse or oral is being considered a fetish.

If we want to talk kinks, that's a different story.
LadyR81​(sub female){--YES--}
1 month ago • Sun 13 Jan 2019 09:29:37 PM IST

Fetishes

LadyR81​(sub female){--YES--} • Sun 13 Jan 2019 09:29:37 PM IST
There are a great many thing that turns me on...I suppose I should list the things that certainly work and NOT work for me...
**YES:**
Being Dominated
All Genders
Rope
Cuffs
Collar
Leash
Wax
Feet
Feathers
Spanking Open-Handed
Spanking Crops
Blindfolds
Masks
Glasses
Intelligence
Respect
KIndness
Communication
Hands on my neck, wrapped snugly...
**NO**
Rape Fantasies/Non-Consensual
Unsolicited "Directives" from Strangers
Underage
Non-Human (Vampire Fantasies are OK)
Blood
Scat
Urine
Josh Ver 2​(dom male)
1 month ago • Mon 14 Jan 2019 05:06:48 PM IST
Josh Ver 2​(dom male) • Mon 14 Jan 2019 05:06:48 PM IST
Sterenda wrote:
Honestlly i have no true fetishs (and it kinda irks me how casually people toss that word around)


I realize I'm a tad late coming to this conversation, but I complete agree with Sterenda on this one. A fetish is something one needs to obtain excitement/fulfillment in intercourse. They cannot get off without it. A kink, on the other hand, is something a person enjoys that is out side of the predetermined norm. Based on the author's list of things, I think the title of this should have been "What Are Your Kinks," not fetishes.

So, to answer the original question, I too, have no true fetishes, but several kinks.