1 week ago • Nov 19, 2023
Miki • Nov 19, 2023
... as both you and LordofPain-in-the-ass56 wrote, things have changed today and moved towards a more hedonistic way of conducting this type of personal life. Some even take it beyond, I have seen obvios D/s dynamics in public.. Basic shit like one walking behind the other, the clothing style one of them wears, etc.
But still, a very quick point.... Human Nature.
Look at marriage. Discounting obvious promo-marriages for celebs, today when one or the other gets bored, instead of addressing the root cause of the boredom, they just throw in the towel and move on to the Next Best Thing.
This started occurring in mainstream marriages over a half century ago. From what I read the "liberating" aspects of the social changes of the 1960s included shit-canning boring marriages were a good part of the changes. Second to that the "Live-In, Love-in teddy" shit. Why get married when you know you'll both move on. Marriage only benefits divorce lawyers.
So it goes for living the twisted life. Commitment, rolling with the punches, working out the inevitable changes that occur when a marriage moves from the initial love-fest phase to being more of a friendship and partnership.
So best of luck to the senior set.
If I were given to relationships, I'd have fallen in the "latter day dynamic" category myself. But I skipped the whole process outright. I am incapable of generating the requisite enthusiasm to risk my careeer path and independence of living by myself and calling my own shots.
...But that's just me.