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gprincesssub​(sub female)
2 months ago • Tue 25 Sep 2018 07:11:45 AM IDT

Finally feeling comfortable

gprincesssub​(sub female) • Tue 25 Sep 2018 07:11:45 AM IDT
Finally, saying the words.
Finally, feeling comfortable in my own skin.
Finally, not feeling ashmed of who I am.
Finally, being able to say I am a submissive.
Now, to start learning how to be a good submissive!
Subjazzy​(sub male)
2 months ago • Wed 26 Sep 2018 06:18:45 AM IDT
Subjazzy​(sub male) • Wed 26 Sep 2018 06:18:45 AM IDT
I like that you posted this. I have suppressed my submissive side for many years. Finally I let go and accepted it. Accepted myself. I don’t know the answer to your question, as I am still trying to figure that out. I do know I like myself for finally accepting that this is what I like and who I am!
Kinsub1
2 months ago • Wed 10 Oct 2018 11:56:43 PM IDT

Crave it

Kinsub1 • Wed 10 Oct 2018 11:56:43 PM IDT
I’m very submissive and kinky I love being humiliated,spit on nastier the better from a bbw white dominated female that’s down for any thing
FabSeverus​(dom male)
2 months ago • Thu 11 Oct 2018 01:37:53 AM IDT
FabSeverus​(dom male) • Thu 11 Oct 2018 01:37:53 AM IDT
More like a blog than a forum question in my opinion...
Bunnie
2 months ago • Thu 11 Oct 2018 01:49:48 AM IDT
Bunnie • Thu 11 Oct 2018 01:49:48 AM IDT
Hi @ gprincesssub, that’s really awesome to hear icon_smile.gif I understand how daunting it can be, and I know the desire you have to want to become the best you can be for Him/Her. I think reading is a good place to start... read blogs, forums, books (there are forums that have recommended readings... also google will become your best friend lol), listen to podcasts. I would also suggest to start writing. It really helps with thoughts and to learn about yourself as you go... you can also share it with your Dominant. Research the different aspects of the lifestyle to help get an understanding of the different dynamics that people identify as, and to help you find the things that resonate with you. The best thing you can do for a potential Dominant, is get to know yourself, and learn to communicate that. Explore, have fun and stay safe icon_biggrin.gif
Phanes57​(dom male)
2 months ago • Thu 11 Oct 2018 02:06:23 AM IDT
Phanes57​(dom male) • Thu 11 Oct 2018 02:06:23 AM IDT
Some good references to read:

https://jolynnraymond.com/2013/02/whats-in-a-name-an-explanation-of-bdsm-roles/ What’s In a Name? An Explanation of BDSM Roles 18 c

https://bdsmtrainingacademy.com/ BDSM Training Academy

https://bdsm-sexperts.blogspot.com/2010/07/types-of-dominance.html Kinkster's Guide
gprincesssub​(sub female)
2 months ago • Thu 11 Oct 2018 05:02:29 AM IDT

You would be correct

gprincesssub​(sub female) • Thu 11 Oct 2018 05:02:29 AM IDT
FabSeverus wrote:
More like a blog than a forum question in my opinion...



Sorry, I accidently posted in the wrong spot. Then couldn't figure out how to delete.
gprincesssub​(sub female)
2 months ago • Thu 11 Oct 2018 05:03:10 AM IDT

Thank you

gprincesssub​(sub female) • Thu 11 Oct 2018 05:03:10 AM IDT
Phanes57 wrote:
Some good references to read:

https://jolynnraymond.com/2013/02/whats-in-a-name-an-explanation-of-bdsm-roles/ What’s In a Name? An Explanation of BDSM Roles 18 c

https://bdsmtrainingacademy.com/ BDSM Training Academy

https://bdsm-sexperts.blogspot.com/2010/07/types-of-dominance.html Kinkster's Guide



Thank you, I will definitely look into them.
SOGirlOnFire​(sub female)
2 months ago • Thu 11 Oct 2018 08:35:35 AM IDT
SOGirlOnFire​(sub female) • Thu 11 Oct 2018 08:35:35 AM IDT
Bunnie wrote:
I think reading is a good place to start... read blogs, forums, books (there are forums that have recommended readings...


Absolutely!!!! I am also reading profiles..... of other subs and Doms both... helping me learn just what my Dom “looks like” by learning about me.....especially if their words RESONATE (thank you Bunnie) with you...