Xarimaz(sub male){Would love}
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5 years ago •
Oct 31, 2018
Maybe...he has expressed that its really not him but the more he does it the more it turnes him on....he is a natural leader but when it comes to me he is just sweet and kind. I want him to be selfish and domeneering
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MasterBear(other butch)
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5 years ago •
Oct 31, 2018
I dont mean to sound rude.
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Xarimaz(sub male){Would love}
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5 years ago •
Oct 31, 2018
You are not being rude, honesty is best. I apreciate it
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MasterBear(other butch)
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5 years ago •
Oct 31, 2018
Being turned on by something and identifying as that thing aren't neccessary related.
If he wants to grow into this role please let him know he has support here. |
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Xarimaz(sub male){Would love}
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5 years ago •
Oct 31, 2018
He has expressed he wants to be a better dom....but the self teaching initiative is not there...i will keep trying and let him know
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MasterBear(other butch)
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5 years ago •
Oct 31, 2018
If he doesn't want this.
Then pushing him into it can create resentment and anger. Are there any bdsm munches in your area? |
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Xarimaz(sub male){Would love}
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5 years ago •
Oct 31, 2018
I have no idea what that is.
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MasterBear(other butch)
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5 years ago •
Oct 31, 2018
Ok.
Are you on fetlife? |
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Xarimaz(sub male){Would love}
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5 years ago •
Oct 31, 2018
No also dont know what that is. Looks like i need to educate myself some more. Lol
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MasterBear(other butch)
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5 years ago •
Oct 31, 2018
Ok.
The cage is an amazing website and quite frankly one of the best and most supportive. Fetlife.com Is a good place to find events in your area. It's free to join. I just searched Kansas and tons came up. |
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