1 year ago • 02/11/2019 11:13 pm
WallyBe(sub male) • 02/11/2019 11:13 pm
Straight male sub here, 26 y/o. I never really thought about anal play even being an 'option' for straight men until I started getting interested in kink about 4 or so years ago. Mind you, my interest in dating came rather late, so I wasn't getting much exposure tot anything 'out of the ordinary'. Then I started dating a rather bossy girl who didn't want penetrative sex, for religious reasons... And to my own amazement and hers, I discovered that I was perfectly fine with that. It didn't last long, but she indirectly left me with a strong interest in chastity play. And when you browse chastity porn, pegging videos are just 2 clicks away...
At first I thought it was extremely weird, and yes "gay", but I eventually got really interested in the power dynamics especially, and I started to understand the appeal. For me, the combination of chastity and anal play especially is a powerful act of submission that I would love to be able to practice, but only with the right woman. It is definitely taboo in any other context, but I would have no problem sharing it with a dominant woman that I like, especially if I know that she is into it herself. I do not think of it as being "gay" anymore.
I'm actually surprised that this is your experience, seeing that those young subs most likely know that you are interested in it... If it was me, I would be more than willing to drop the day-to-day facade and come clear with you. Of course, everyone has their own kink, and submission has a different meaning for everyone. I just wouldn't expect it to be as age-specific as you have experienced.