8 months ago • Wed 24 Apr 2019 09:45:16 PM IDT
Asteria(neither female) • Wed 24 Apr 2019 09:45:16 PM IDT
Anything that is done "subconsciously" does not seem to be... consensual or ethical. It cannot be - in my opinion - foundation of something new.
@ MstrMC - you wrote that you love your life and love your wife. I think this is really important thing that cannot be overlooked. Cheating and hurting your wife (and probably yourself as well) is not a solution.
What you should keep in mind, and maybe show your wife slowly and carefully is that BDSM and kink have many shades. It does not need to be extreme. You can start with things that are subtle, and see how she responds. Give her time to process everything in her head. Create safe environment for you two to talk about this delicate subject. Not everyone needs to jump into 24/7 M/s in one second.