8 months ago • Fri 17 May 2019 05:24:17 AM IDT
Moonstruck(sub female) • Fri 17 May 2019 05:24:17 AM IDT
I can see where, even if you're not going to use it or sign it as a "contract," there would be great benefit in the act of composing one. It's a time when you MUST address the expectations of and responsibilities to both yourself and your partner. You bring things out in the open, things that you may not have communicated because you may not have really thought about them or had the opportunity to address them. This is a time when you get on the same page, so to speak. I can't see where knowing each other's expectations and recognizing the fact that you are both open and aware of those requirements could be a bad thing.