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What does Politics have with being a “good” sub or friend

DrWakko
4 years ago • Aug 16, 2019
DrWakko • Aug 16, 2019
Hate, bigotry, anti Semitism are not political views. They are ideologies. Having a view about budget the county and how we should deal with other countries that’s political.
MasterBear​(other butch)
4 years ago • Aug 16, 2019
MasterBear​(other butch) • Aug 16, 2019
The question is one of priviledge.

You asking it means you dont understand the implications of it.

Politics matter.

They always matter.

Ever been in a play soace in a sea of white faces and wonder where the poc and lgbtqainb are?

Its beause organizers dont think politics matter.

I stand UP AGAINST HATE and those who spread it.
I stand UP AGAINST BIGOTRY and those that support it.
I stand UP AGAINST ANTI SEMITISM and those who try and cover it up.

You have an issue with that dont step a toe into my house.

White supremacists are not welcome.
Those who suppport the wall are not welcome.

I will never tolerate being called a "f" word just because the organizer allows bigots.

I will NEVER tolerate my beloved being called the "n" word because the organizer is to chickenshit to STAND UP.

If you have an issue with my stance that says all I need to know about you and how you will treat the people at my parties who understand why politics matter.
Dariame​(sub female)
4 years ago • Aug 14, 2019
Dariame​(sub female) • Aug 14, 2019
DrWakko

Thank you for your comments, I don’t meet someone and automatically ask their political opinions or worry about their opinions. But I do like a healthy discussion!
No Body​(dom male)
4 years ago • Aug 14, 2019
No Body​(dom male) • Aug 14, 2019
Nothing my best friends are Dems and I am somewhere in the middle having votes for both parties and a few others.
DrWakko
4 years ago • Aug 14, 2019
DrWakko • Aug 14, 2019
I believe the “don’t message me if you are a trump supporter” is just a bandwagon thing. I can’t think of a single politician that I disagree 100%. I might not agree with everything they say but I can find something.

I get along with trump supporters, Rep and Dems. It’s a bit silly if you ask me.
Azzabackam​(switch male){PawPawGirl}
4 years ago • Aug 14, 2019
I don't think it has anything to do with the lifestyle intrinsically, but some people are very selective with *everything* in their lives on that front, so of course that would extend to kink if someone like that is also in the lifestyle.
LoverofRope
4 years ago • Aug 14, 2019
LoverofRope • Aug 14, 2019
I understand what you are saying, though I can see it being an issue for me. I can agree to disagree in regards to politics or religion and will have a conversation with just about anyone. However, I have been in a relationship with someone that believed their was the only way. I won't do it again. I don't begrudge them their beliefs, but I also don't need to put myself in a situation of unnecessary stress. No thanks, life is too short.
Dariame​(sub female)
4 years ago • Aug 13, 2019
Dariame​(sub female) • Aug 13, 2019
Secret

I understand what you are saying, but a healthy relationship sometimes come with differences. But doesn’t mean I cannot be their friend. I guess I never thought that because of political beliefs that people couldn’t be friends especially in this life style .

Seems silly!!!
AKittenforSir​(sub female){JohnBond}
4 years ago • Aug 13, 2019
I am pretty open minded in political regard so I 100% get what you’re saying, but I understand how strong political beliefs could make one put limitations on who they accept as a Dom or sub. It isn’t based on their ability to perform their Dominant or submissive roles, it’s the ability for them to get along as a couple. Unless you’re in a high protocol 24/7 M/s dynamic, your relationship is going to include some regular everyday mundane conversations and interests outside of kink. So if you feel strongly about your political affiliation and it’s something you talk about or advocate for on a regular basis, it makes sense that they’d want a like minded partner.
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