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Misterasmodai​(dom male)
3 weeks ago • Tue 19 Nov 2019 11:55:42 PM IST

Politesse

Misterasmodai​(dom male) • Tue 19 Nov 2019 11:55:42 PM IST
Out of curiosity, how many of you subs, switches, or applicable bottoms would immediately turn away a potential Dom who approaches you politely, as an equal?
sapphireblu​(sub female)
3 weeks ago • Wed 20 Nov 2019 12:23:45 AM IST
sapphireblu​(sub female) • Wed 20 Nov 2019 12:23:45 AM IST
I prefer politeness. I have trust you, I can’t do that with out chatting with you and getting to know you.
Duke Montefort​(dom male)
3 weeks ago • Wed 20 Nov 2019 12:30:10 AM IST
Duke Montefort​(dom male) • Wed 20 Nov 2019 12:30:10 AM IST
I always found it like anything else hit and miss. Sometimes it really works, sometimes they think I"m weak, Sometimes we just have different goals. The general average is 1/10 mostly.
MasterBear​(other butch)
3 weeks ago • Wed 20 Nov 2019 12:49:58 AM IST
MasterBear​(other butch) • Wed 20 Nov 2019 12:49:58 AM IST
We are equal until it is negotiated otherwise.

I would happilt turn away anyone who came to me forgetting that.
AKittenforSir​(sub female){JohnBond}
3 weeks ago • Wed 20 Nov 2019 02:27:05 AM IST
AKittenforSir​(sub female){JohnBond} • Wed 20 Nov 2019 02:27:05 AM IST
Politeness is a must. I think any sub with experience or who is looking for something real (and not just an online fantasy played out over chat for a few days/weeks) will want and expect a polite introduction from a potential Dominant.

A sub who assumes that politeness equates weakness is inexperienced and naive.
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almostpeachy​(sub female)
3 weeks ago • Wed 20 Nov 2019 03:21:36 AM IST
almostpeachy​(sub female) • Wed 20 Nov 2019 03:21:36 AM IST
If you're not polite to me you won't get anywhere with me. I'll respect you as a Dom if you are MY Dom. Until you are my Dom you are my equal.
TheLittlePrincess​(sub female)
3 weeks ago • Wed 20 Nov 2019 05:57:15 AM IST
TheLittlePrincess​(sub female) • Wed 20 Nov 2019 05:57:15 AM IST
No, they have to be polite. In my opinion, I will respect them as a Dom, but we are equal otherwise until discussed. I have to be able to get to know that person as another person and not as someone who is in charge. I have to be able to speak freely. I have to know who they are and what they want and if it matches my own interest then we can get into talking about a dynamic.
RopeBunnie​(sub female){Not Lookin}
3 weeks ago • Wed 20 Nov 2019 08:33:18 AM IST
RopeBunnie​(sub female){Not Lookin} • Wed 20 Nov 2019 08:33:18 AM IST
If one was polite, then there is no need to turn them away... I'm not looking for a Dom, but getting to know people on here to gain knowledge, viewpoints /opinions, and insights won't be easy if I just dismiss someone out of hand... I am trying to be up front and letting people know I'm not looking, but am open to conversations for making friends and meeting like minded people!
Bunnie
3 weeks ago • Thu 21 Nov 2019 01:48:21 AM IST
Bunnie • Thu 21 Nov 2019 01:48:21 AM IST
For me there is a huge difference between politeness, and being approached as an equal.