Conversation Starter: Define Submission
1 month ago • Sun 12 Jan 2020 04:34:45 AM IST
KarmaCollar(dom female) • Sun 12 Jan 2020 04:34:45 AM IST
Feel like things get a little stale around here sometimes, so thought I would start some conversation topics..
Not talking about Webster, obviously
as a sub, what is submission to you? How far into your life does (do you want) it (to) reach?
What minimum behavior do you have to (be required)
(to) do (daily or not)? What could you never do, even if you wanted to? How much autonomy do you need (or need to let go of/have taken)?
What's the minimum you expect of what you'd call submiissive behavior? Where does it start (real life or kink only)? What do you expect your subs to automatically defer to you and how much control over their own lives is "too much" for you, dimming your interest in them as a sub? What do you expect them to ask out loud (every time, or as baseline rules )?
UPFRONT: I'm not asking about generalized "we're all different, some do this some do that" answers. I want to know you're personal opinion/truth. We all know we're all different.
I'm asking what submission means TO YOU. From the most basic, small, daily (even solo) things to the max that pushes you're limits (and what goes over) as either a Domme or a sub.
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