Literate Lycan(dom male) |
3 years ago •
Jul 15, 2020
3 years ago •
Jul 15, 2020
Literate Lycan(dom male) • Jul 15, 2020
I know you said you’re going to wrap this up and put it on the shelf, but I thought I’d add my one cents worth (not even worth two).
Have you “really” considered why you wish to do this? Is it really to help someone you don’t know avoid a pitfall that you ignored and stepped right in. Or is it to get back at your ex and possibly restore any bit of your reputation with the Vanilla community that has distanced itself from you? I’m guessing when you mentioned that the stories about the previous exes made sense in that you heard the stories from her and not from others. Or did you hear about her from others and still chose to ignore the warnings? I would probably be just as offended or hurt if I wound up being misrepresented by an ex. And to have others who know you consider you an abusive individual is harsh. But you seem to be carrying her burden still and maybe you need to find a way to let it go. There is no wrong answer and this isn’t a dig at you. If you do approach the new boyfriend, just be honest with yourself about why you’re doing it. If you are trying to restore your reputation - not bad. If you’re attempting to destroy her reputation - eh - questionable. If you’re trying to save him from a fate worse than death - not bad but also maybe he won’t heed your advice and like Bunnie indicated, maybe she has matured. Good luck on your path in life. |
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