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Pacman vs. LEGOS.. which do you prefer?

EclecticRhetoric​(dom male)
3 years ago • Oct 14, 2020

Pacman vs. LEGOS.. which do you prefer?

Pacman vs. Legos,,, not your favorite kid games. We are talking about your favorite adult games Pacman vs Legos or (Ghosting vs Blocking). I have had both but lets see what others say.

"Both ghosting and blocking are horrible; but in my opinion, blocking might just be worse than ghosting. At least if you’re ghosted you can still get in some of your feelings through some final unanswered texts. You will never get a reply but at least you can still throw some shade and have the satisfaction of knowing the text arrived in the persons phone. You’re able to communicate your final thoughts and feelings to a ghost. With blocking, you aren’t given this option. The blocker puts a figurative sock in the mouth of the blocked and disappears without any warning. The blocked person is completely silenced and completely shut-out."

Final thoughts,
Ghosting and blocking are both really cruel.,

Maybe the other person doesn't know they did something to warrant that behavior and more importantly abusive behavior creates abuse.. It is easier to close the door and walk away, but after but you take accountability for what that person does next. You can be the last person he or she confided in before you left their life and ultimately it creates a pattern of unaccountability. Blocking or ghosting, doesn't breed future accountability and actually increases sensitivity.

-->https://www.bolde.com/what-dating-like-sensitive-af/

Sources Cited:

Eve- May, A. (2018) The Dating Reality that is Ghosting and Blocking. The Splendid Path.https://www.thesplendidpath.com/articles/2018/9/1/the-new-dating-reality-that-is-ghosting-and-blocking#:~:text=Both%20ghosting%20and%20blocking%20are,through%20some%20final%20unanswered%20texts.&text=You're%20able%20to%20communicate,and%20feelings%20to%20a%20ghost.
ElizaEmma​(sub female){NotLooking}
3 years ago • Oct 14, 2020
Is this a question or a statement (or your opinion)?

Ghosting and blocking both show a lack of courage to deliver an uncomfortable message, but appear to be very common these days, and not just limited to dating. So many employers won't even bother to tell people "thanks but no thanks" and leave them wondering what happened to their job application.