New Dom looking for guidance.

New Dom looking for guidance.

sleeplessness • Nov 28, 2020

I'm new to BDSM and im definitely the Dom person/personality. I'm exploring new things in my life and im looking for help for the community to understand what makes a good Dom.

Literate Lycan​(dom male) • Nov 29, 2020

I think before you can determine how to become good at being a Dominant, you need to ask yourself, what kind of Dominant do you feel you should be. I’d highly recommend taking a good deal of time to read blogs from both Dominant and submissive and see what may resonate with you. If you see a Dominant that you feel may emulate the qualities you aspire to, reach out and ask a few questions. Most of the best ones here are very open to chatting. Seeking out a mentor is smart, but to find the right one, you really need to learn more about what in the BDSM lifestyle you are interested in.

Best of luck on your quest for knowledge. I believe you are doing it right by seeking assistance and guidance from the community.

LL

sleeplessness • Nov 29, 2020

Thank you for the advice and guidance.