Frustrated

Frustrated

Mzmocha​(sub female) • Nov 8, 2020

Ok so as someone used to having sex daily (multiple times a day) , I am currently loosing my mind. I have been single in all capacities since February. I am so over it, but I work so much that I never have time to get out and meet people. And online dating/ hook ups have their short comings too. Also, I may be a little bit picky. Idk, just need to vent. Til next time.

Onlinedomguy​(dom male) • Nov 10, 2020

Life does get in the way, more so these days then normal, but still. I looked at your profile and see how busy you must be with your job and new business venture.

I know how much time and energy it takes to get a business going and that alone demands so much of your intellect and time, so not suprising you would find other parts of your life being neglected.

I know you were just venting but hang in there. You sound like a driven person and I am sure you will find a way to incorporate what else you need at the right time.

I say that understanding you are frustrated now so maybe find a way to allocate a bit of your time reaching out to people who interest you but be clear up front you are not in a position to make developing some kind of relationship your number 1 priority at the moment.

There are others who have demanding lives and are looking to form some type of connection who may find it desirable to have someone to chat and play with in a casual way. I am sure there are others who might feel the need and desire to connect with interesting people even if there are limits to availability and time.

Good luck!

Mzmocha​(sub female) • Nov 10, 2020

@Onlinedomguy​(dom male) first thank you for taking the time to read my post.
Second thanks for the advice. I hadn't really considered that for different reasons but I can see that working. Again I appreciate your advise.

Onlinedomguy​(dom male) • Nov 10, 2020

glad my comments were helpful...

Miki • Nov 11, 2020

I've had the same experience but after a time I found it easier to do without. Hookups and all that, especially with people you have not known before are problematic these days for obvious reasons, so I am content to stay alone and rub off a few here and there if needed. Even then, less than before because as I said, the need fades if not fulfilled for a time. Maybe that's a woman thing, I don't know, I can only speak for myself.

As for you, fella, I assume spanking the bishop a few times a day doesn't help..

When I do rub one off it's usually while watching porn, sometimes just watching myself in the mirror (hey I'm in here because I may be a professional in the work-a-day, or in my case night-- world but in le boudoir I'm one twisted bitch!)

Taramafor​(sub male) • Nov 11, 2020

You might want to consider F-chat and lewd online roleplay.

Just look into it. See examples (I can provide some). THEN have an opinion before deciding. It can be more then just fap material too. I'll elaborate if there's any interest on the matter. Otherwise I leave you to your ignorance. But simply put, "Attention and appreciation". And knowing you make things happen together. Is the simplest way I can put it. As a sub female you're already more likely to gain more attention there.

shortylotus​(dom female){ValueDom} • Nov 11, 2020

Its very frustrating. Sex is like craving a steak and masturbation is like eating hamburger. The hamburger will satisfy your hunger but its still just not a damn steak no matter how you look at it. Maybe try to find a friends with benefits? It may not be the best cut of steak but its still better then hamburger...or at least you hope

Mzmocha​(sub female) • Dec 7, 2020

@shortylotus thank you and very well put that is exactly how I feel. I am trying to find the right situation but no luck so far.

House Talion​(dom male) • Jan 12, 2021

It's a general physical process based on sexual needs from previous times. As most said things it just takes time without while filling needs with 'better than nothing'

LordofPain56 • Jan 14, 2021

ehhh, just let it grow on you. In time, you'll get used to it.