1 month ago • 02/25/2021 6:16 pm
snugglenugget(other female) • 02/25/2021 6:16 pm
What is true dominance? Some may say it’s the ability to have someone to submit to you fully, some people think it’s a characteristic trait that one possesses. I will arguably say it can be a trait or a choice. However, there are some things that I feel dominance is not.
Dominance is not:
*Telling your sub what to do, when to do it abs how to do it.
*It’s not telling her she’s wrong for how she feels when it differs from your own feelings.
*Its not pushing your desires over your submissive’s just because you know they’ll cave.
*It is not always putting your submissive first either.
What I feel dominance is:
*dominance is observance in the highest degree
*dominance is encouraging
*dominance is about helping your sub tear down their own walls
*dominance is about quieting the negative voices or providing a calming shoulder or ear.
*dominance is about revealing the hidden beautiful jewel of human that your submissive is in life and in kink.
If you’re not about the whole person, their life, their dreams, their needs and desires abs observing and helping with it all. You’re not a true dominant, you’re simply playing a role.