OraclePollon(sub female){NotYours} |
3 years ago •
Mar 7, 2021
3 years ago •
Mar 7, 2021
OraclePollon(sub female){NotYours} • Mar 7, 2021
Where does flirting become friendship?
Aggressive flirting? Never (IMHO) but tjat should make you uncomfortable regardless. But I can't count the times where someone misinterpreted my kindness as flirting, then it just goes and gets awkward. Jealously also comes into play. I have been with the most extroverted person who would kindly flirt with women endlessly and I never felt my relationship was in jeopardy. I have also been with that person who is "making friends" with the opposite sex that I am being left out of and it is underhanded as fuk. And fuk that person. You are entitled to feel how someone makes you feel, and they are responsible for understanding. It is not being selfish to want something that seems opposite in different circumstances, above is a perfect example of feeling what someone else is projecting onto you. Then lastly, I think the third parties intention is a HUGE factor in your decision. Some people get the thrill flirting with someone they know is interested in them. That is wrong for everyone involved. If you can't joke, flirt, being a fool without it leading someone on, because they want more and are only waiting to jump at their opportunity... You should not flirt with them. I have been reprimanded for that mindset, as it is very "It is not my fault they want me" as being along the lines of "She was asking for it" but sorry, that is my opinion, and yes, there are things you can and should do to not surround yourself with those people. I get just as offended when my male partner is surrounding himself with attention seeking women. |
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