Sex and where to get it

Sex and where to get it

CSI • Mar 22, 2021

Do you expect your other(s) to be able to fulfill you sexually - wholly and completely? As some of these profile writers suggest they are absolutely insatiable, how are you fulfilled? When is it enough (or is it ever)? Would you negotiate going to an outside source to get that itch scratched or "insatiable need" satisfied?

House Talion​(dom male) • Mar 22, 2021

Considering an outside source seems like cheating, even with consent. If I'm to have additional relations it certainly wouldn't be just for sex

LordofPain56 • Mar 22, 2021

If you really are cute, sexy and intelligent as your name suggests, why do you need to ask the question?
If you are unsatisfied or unfulfilled in some way, talk openly to your current partner and tell him what you want or need.
In my book of rules, this would have been all ironed out well before a sexual relationship ever ensued.
Did you guys not trade questionnaires and come to a final agreement before you started dating?

CSI • Mar 22, 2021

Actually, LordofPain56, I am trying to stimulate conversation and get people thinking about things they may not have considered or give them something to talk about. You need not make assumptions about my intelligence, as I know what I have and what I bring to the table. I would certainly openly discuss this with anyone I would consider being in a dynamic with.

LeashCalledLove​(sub male){__________} • Mar 22, 2021

My libido has peaks and valleys that only get wider the older I get. I'm hoping I can use this to divest a little bit from solely from how fucking hot BDSM is and get more into the power dynamics and psychological aspects. That, in turn will probably increase and homogenize my libido, hopefully for the benefit of my partner.

Part of me feels like I could be more successful trying to get a vanilla partner into it than starting from scratch with a practitioner/enthusiast, but I'm determined to at least make a concerted effort and not shut operation kink down the second when(if) I get a vanilla partner.

latexbondagebunny​(other male) • Mar 22, 2021

What's sex??

CSI • Mar 22, 2021

Might have to Google it?

latexbondagebunny​(other male) • Mar 22, 2021

Would end up with too much Porn.

CSI • Mar 22, 2021

If you start out with "definition of" it pulls up a lot of resources, and none of them are porn.

Laylamini​(dom female) • Mar 22, 2021

I am extremely active sexually, which is why I prefer a poly style relationship. I've never quite found one person that can satisfy me emotionally and then also have sex 5 times a day lol. I would not want to put that kind of pressure on one person.