Taboo kinks

Taboo kinks

RopeSubMasoBratWoman​(sub female) • Mar 26, 2021

Is anyone else ashamed of some of their kinks, if not were you ever and how did you overcome it?

Secret Mind​(dom male) • Mar 26, 2021

I use to be. I thought mine was really screwed up and that I would never do them. Then I met some submissive women who absoutly loved and shared the same kinks as me. We shouldn't be scared of our kinks or of judgment for them. If we're all fully open and confident in what we want then we will attract like minded people.

Richlydefined​(sub female){Gardener} • Mar 26, 2021

Oh, how I wish the last sentence above was true for me but I agree with the rest; not being afraid or judging others for what they like.

I suspect a lot of it is an attitude, if you whisper about your kinks like they're something shameful then yeah others are going to pick up on that and wonder if maybe it's something they should be ashamed of. I have some kinks that others would find distasteful but then they have some that make me feel the same. It's all just another thing or piece that makes you who you are and once I accepted that It was easy to separate the fact that liking different flavors in kink is much like enjoying different types of food. you like this one but someone else doesn't and vice versa, no need to examine it deeper it's just another nuance of you.

yourbootsownme​(sub male) • Mar 26, 2021

Ashamed? Hmmm....maybe a little, for a few of them, but not a strong feeling. Just a feeling that a few of them are a little weird or odd. Rather than feel ashamed of those ones, more often I wonder where those kinks came from, at what stage in my development did they get intertwined with sexual arousal. If you are able to gain an understanding of how or why these things appeal to you, they hold less overt power over your mind.

Fortunately, none of my kinks are dangerously taboo. Just odd, in my opinion. There's one thing you just have to accept: you like what you like. You can't help that. You can work on distracting yourself from those kinks, from focusing on other things, and from not acting on the ones you prefer were kept to a minimum. But you like what you like, whether it's something as common as being whipped to something as strange as having Fig Newtons smeared all over your face. (That's the most random one I could come up with).

DaddiesPumpkin​(switch female){Not Lookin} • Mar 26, 2021

For me, I wouldn't necessarily say I've been ashamed of some of my kinks, just selective on who knows what (so to say). Also, the word taboo (IMO) is such a broad based term.

There was a point when I was like "Ooh wow... I really like that !!" And thought to myself is this 'normal' but it boils down to knowing yourself and accepting what comes along with it.

Awesome topic.
Wishing you well

Kelpi • Mar 26, 2021

Yes I use to hide what I was into because I just thought I was alone i it. Then friends where talking about what they do and i came out. First they hwere shocked. Then the questions started and it was down hill from there as they started to get as kinky as me some even more so.

acquiesced​(sub male) • Mar 26, 2021

"I was kinky before kinky was cool."

Remember Irving Claw? Bettie Page? I discovered my kinky side before it was even known, before porn, before XXX, before magazines. It's still something that generally keep a secret, except for lovers and a few close friends. I doubt that I will ever be totally open about it. That's just how it has always been for me.

Please Forgive Me, but I had to comment

CuckoldforNylons​(masochist male){Not Yet} • Mar 27, 2021

I'm actually the polar opposite of this forum, I'm a submissive man dreaming of a Dominant Woman. So, I promise to make this short.

Many of my kinks make me feel ashamed, especially my fetish for being a cuckold and my fantasy of being forced into bi-sexual acts by a woman. Two seemingly innocent fantasies except that whenever I'm asked to speak about them opening, I get super embarrassed and begin to feel like something is wrong with me. Taboo Kinks are so erotic, but terrifying at the same time. One of my biggest taboos, breath play! I love to be choked and strangled during play, but how do you tell someone that?

Dominus eius​(dom male){LittleLott} • Mar 27, 2021

I’ve debated on whether to answer this. I have some similarities to legloverbrenton.

I enjoy bisexual action and I enjoy an element of cross dressing. For many years I believed that this needed to be forced and therefore I had to be submissive - despite the fact that this really didn’t fit with the rest of my personality.

It took a long time to recognise that I enjoy what I enjoy and there is no reason for this to need me to fit a particular dynamic.

Since accepting this and then allowing my natural dominance to come through - I have been so much more content and comfortable in my own skin.

neutrinozero • Mar 27, 2021

when the boys in blue put you in cuffs, and chain you to something