TBDom(dom male) |
2 years ago •
Apr 19, 2021
2 years ago •
Apr 19, 2021
TBDom(dom male) • Apr 19, 2021
Great conversation and I agree with all that has been said here. One thing I would add though is my sub and I often will "lab" a new scene or a new idea before we do a full scene. For example, I just got a new coffee table and was going to tie her to it. We spent a little time making sure I understood how her joints were going to move relative to the table, where she might need extra padding, how to position her for maximum access to her mouth and pussy after she was tied, etc. In our lab mode, my sub is very much part of the conversation. Once we switch to scene mode the dynamic changes.
One other thing I have found to be very successful, is when my sub starts telling me what do do during a scene, I make a point of doing the opposite. For example, if she says fuck me faster, I will slow down and make sure to please her as slowly as I can. This is teaching her to trust that giving up control will still be very pleasurable. Of course, just sticking my cock in her mouth when she is talking too much is effective as well! |
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