How to recognise a Dom and show I’m a sub
2 weeks ago • 04/23/2021 1:11 pm
LadyLayIa(sub female) • 04/23/2021 1:11 pm
I’m very new to the lifestyle. Not new to being the way I am, but new to being able to identify it.
I’m still very unsure about how to recognise whether someone is into BDSM and would love to be able to recognise these traits, particularly in a male Dom.
I know ... there is no way to know anything for sure. Communication is key. But what are some common traits you have found that Doms exhibit in everyday life? Something that will at least hint to me that I could possibly have that conversation?
I’m friends with someone and not at the stage of a conversation, but still at the stage of looking for hints, clues, etc
As someone who I’m not dating, there are some small hints that I don’t want to look too deeply into ... often standing behind my chair (no one else’s) holding the back rest; long looks that are often while standing close, looking down or sideways; in social situations ALWAYS lets me serve food/drinks and clean up without assistance, but always ready to help with heavy lifting etc
Any input would be appreciated.
Conversely, what are some non explicit things I could do in public to show I’m a sub and into the lifestyle?