1 week ago • 04/30/2021 8:24 pm
Kitzer(sub female) • 04/30/2021 8:24 pm
It sucks that she blocked you but it's her right to do so. She isn't your sub and doesn't owe you anything.
Now I'm not saying you did anything wrong but you did put her off. So to her (keyword her), how you responded was not okay and she didn't feel comfortable with the level of control you were trying to implement.
Perhaps your expectations are high. This is fine! Doms should have expectations around these things. But remember these expectations cannot be enforced on someone without both their willingness and consent. And she clearly isn't willing to adhere to it. Perhaps she's right when she tells you she's not the sub for you because she isn't going to meet your expectations.
And you'll probably meet lots of subs on here who aren't right for you before one that is comes around. So stop focusing on all the wrongs (this girl) and find your right.