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Non-sexual traits or things that turn you off

cherilynn​(sub female)
2 years ago • Jul 10, 2021
cherilynn​(sub female) • Jul 10, 2021
My number one deal breaker has to be a lack of empathy and compassion accompanied by a needy, clingy, desperate personality.
groogle​(sub female)
2 years ago • Jul 10, 2021
groogle​(sub female) • Jul 10, 2021
Bad grammar
Any form of verbal abuse (especially yelling in anger)
Gaslighting
Emotional immaturity
Slvls​(sub female)
2 years ago • Sep 19, 2021
Slvls​(sub female) • Sep 19, 2021
When you're supposed to be with a dominant male and he starts begging
parsumlit{UnderConsi}
2 years ago • Sep 19, 2021
parsumlit{UnderConsi} • Sep 19, 2021
I may hate having the spotlight shined on me or having to talk about myself, but it still feels nice to have someone direct questions my way.

When they only talk about themselves or ask questions that ultimately direct the conversation back to them, it makes me feel like they aren’t interested, don’t want to get to know me, and/or want to understand how I think.
EagerToPleaseYou​(sub female){Not Lookin}
2 years ago • Sep 19, 2021
Inconsistent communication

Being a completely different person from what is presented in your profile

When words don't match the actions
Words mean nothing if you can't show me how you feel with your actions.
ButterfliesAndCuffs​(sub female)
2 years ago • Sep 19, 2021
I’ve got to say inconsistent communication too. Along with just bad communication - not being able to express yourself effectively and respectfully.
Inability to admit when you’re wrong and meaningfully apologize.
Not respecting hard limits - continuing to push.
Liars/manipulators.
A lack of creativity or imagination.
MyGoddessAaliyah
2 years ago • Sep 19, 2021
MyGoddessAaliyah • Sep 19, 2021
People who spit in my presence or takes every phone call while we are together.