Yvol Morningstar |
2 years ago •
Aug 15, 2021
Re: Dom's wanting submission and trust without earning it
2 years ago •
Aug 15, 2021
Yvol Morningstar • Aug 15, 2021
BDSM is an umbrella term for a relationship or activity involving various erotic practices, including bondage and discipline, dominance and submission, and sadism and masochism.
There are often many stigmas and misconceptions associated with BDSM practices and relationships, especially around dominant and submissive roles. The concept of equality regarding a BDSM relationship with a dominant and submissive role is where some individuals may feel confused. However, a healthy BDSM relationship should have an equal and consensual power exchange between the dominant and submissive. The submissive partner in the relationship should consensually and willingly agree to submit to the dominant partner. The submissive can, at any time, take away the authority and control of the dominant, therefore allowing them to have power and control over the situation or relationship. The submissive should never feel belittled, uncomfortable, or unsafe at any time in their relationship. They submit to the dominant by choice, which benefits and provides pleasure to both partners, ultimately making the power exchange in the relationship equal. |
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