I noticed that too as someone who’s gender fluid. Kind of disheartening, but its always better to be loved for who you are then someone you could be
Queer, masc of center, cis woman here and just want to share that yeah, there are a ton of douchebags on this site but that I met the love of my life here. After 9 months of visits she moved to Colorado to be with me and last April I proposed to her and we're getting married this summer. She's also my beloved Dominant. So, don't give up in the midst of the jerks. My super queer self found someone here when I wasn't even looking. Hang in there. There are always some friendly faces here. Unfortunately you have to sift through the poop to find the good ones.