any red flags
5 months ago • 12/01/2021 2:43 am
Alfasun • 12/01/2021 2:43 am
ANY RED FLAGS???
I am learning that it’s good to have sexual thoughts in your mind. However, when you are in the moment where your sexual thoughts become reality, you need to make sure to control your emotions and in particularly in my case the fear and live the moment. Have more trust in my Dom, so I do not worry about disease transmission etc. That for You to control and keep us safe, to really understand that it’s not my job as a submissive to control/think about it while you are the…this only becomes the case if you send me out alone and You aren’t present.
As a submissive it is never about my wants and feelings. I need to put them aside and make sure I am being submissive. It’s important to do things in the relationship not in a way that is just suitable for me. More what’s best and more suitable for the relationship and put in the effort and appreciate the effort that has been put into the relationship by all.
Being comfortable in spending money in us. Having to ask You for permission, if I can spend my own money to make it is clear to mE that You control and decide everything in my life.
Always being aware of the energy you put in a relationship. Making sure it’s more fun and positive, because negative energy does nothing.
It’s more important what you give than focusing on what you get…
However having said all that understanding that my submission to You is a choice so if I chose not to submit to You, You could not control anything … but in our relationship we choose to be with each other, to submit and to Dominate..