Submissive male

Submissive male

my Domina​(dom female) • Feb 20, 2022

There are so many so-called submissive men who are actually kinksters. Indirectly they want to fulfill their sexual fetishes and different kinds of kinks in the name of being submissive. They're not for submission, they're more into being a sex-slave or a slut. That's how it's so hard to find a genuine sub-male : )

Knightsundere​(sub male) • Feb 20, 2022

I don't know how much more submissive you can get than being a sex slave. Do you mean they should be submissive outside of the bedroom/in normal life? Not suggesting that's unusual, just not sure.

Spellbound Wytch{Mr. Parker} • Feb 20, 2022

I think she means they're only interested in participating in their own chosen kinks that they find sexually gratifying to themselves. Hopefully, she'll clarify that for you herself though.

nikkimousy • Feb 20, 2022

this is interesting, i never would have understood this post until recently. i find I want to play sub in all the least sexual ways the most, as much as I am interested in sex. i really want to add significant value to someone and have them care enough about me to command me to go to bed on time and think about the right things.

Solace​(dom male) • Feb 20, 2022

I am partial to Knightsundere's response and would like to add this is not different for women.

A great deal of ladies I've shared discourse with wish to be sexually dominanted and not more. This is an accepted ideal within the community.

If you are expressing frustration at your inability to find the person who will do more with you then...yes that is the struggle we must all suffer. I apologize but finding someone here is like dating in the real world. You still have to find someone, and then you still have to make it work.

It's just harder because theres fewer of us.

my Domina​(dom female) • Feb 20, 2022

There's a difference between a submissive and a sex-slave. In submission sexual stuff is just a part not the full concept. That's why I said most of them are just sex slaves in the name of being so-called submissive. And yes, also so-called domme exists where they are just fulfilling their sexual pleasures and kinks by saying they're actually in BDSM, where they are, but only because of their kinks not in the sense of including it in their lifestyle.
Anyway, thanks for your reply : ))

nikkimousy • Feb 20, 2022

good thing I am not picky

TheShdow • Feb 20, 2022

Does it make you submissive that you want to be have someone who is smart enough to guide you through everything not just sex, someone who is smarter and wiser than you?

my Domina​(dom female) • Feb 20, 2022

Not really
It depends how much you're letting them to dominate you and your submission towards them.

TheShdow • Feb 20, 2022

May i ask for more info on that or more explaining?
i really like profile by the way