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Slave828​(sub male)
5 years ago • Jun 23, 2018

Need help

Slave828​(sub male) • Jun 23, 2018
I'm pretty new to this and don't completely understand how to get in touch with a domme that would be able to guide me into this lifestyle.

So some suggestions would be very helpful and appropriated
Byrdie​(switch female){rl only}
5 years ago • Jun 23, 2018
Depending on where you are in the United States, you could find a munch near you:

http://findamunch.com/category/locations/united-states/

You could also find nearby organizations to connect with and meet people through (scroll down a bit for the state listings):

http://www.darkheart.com/usalist.html

If all else fails, there's Wikipedia:

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_BDSM_organizations#United_States

Good luck!
steviee​(sub femme){None}
5 years ago • Jun 23, 2018

Find a domme

steviee​(sub femme){None} • Jun 23, 2018
Fly out to whereever. If you need to get right by her, go. You should complete a task, as you make your way there. I would sugest, going dressed in unisex clothing. You should submit to your disire to be dominated. Real life.
MissBonnie​(dom female){oz}
5 years ago • Jun 24, 2018

Re: Need help

Slave828 wrote:
I'm pretty new to this and don't completely understand how to get in touch with a domme that would be able to guide me into this lifestyle.

So some suggestions would be very helpful and appropriated



Byrdie has given you great advise. some additional advise to the real time world and the online communities that are full of lifestylers...like here!. Ask questions, answer questions. Chat with others. learn about yourself and you interests. Understand what it is you offer and expect in return. Let others get to know you. Stand out, be seen (for the right reasons) Use whats available to you such as profiles etc. Put in effort and often you'll get noticed. Dommes cant notice what isn't there. If your serious there are Dommes to be found...if you put in the work to find them or be seen by them icon_smile.gif When looking for a partner, you need to be proactive in any walk of life, BDSM/Femdom is no different. Later when owned is when you become reactive (to her, if that is her wish). If you wait around ....you'll still be waiting in a decade wondering where the time went!
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