2 months ago • Sep 14, 2022
SirsBabyDoll(sub female) • Sep 14, 2022
I discussed a contract with someone once. By working on it together, editing it and clarifying language, it helped guide our discussions and allowed up to be EXTREMELY specific.
The most important part of ANY dynamic, I think, is making sure you are both using the same "dictionary". Define words that SEEM obvious (for example: disrespect) but are actually perceptions. That defining of words helps find areas that may have hidden triggers (I experienced this just yesterday).