1 year ago • Sep 18, 2022
tallslenderguy(other male) • Sep 18, 2022
I am not kink shaming you, it seems like they are not regarded as a human being and if I decide to shame you, it would be for that.
It's tricky, eh? What's missing here is the "slaves" input in this conversation. Personally, i don't relate to masochism or being a slave, and the sub in me only responds to affectionate control, so i often find myself shunned by many who identify as "Dom," and often have to be blunt with satists that i am not masochist.
But that's me.
i am aware that there are people on both sides of the slash who apparently like this kind of dynamic, even though it's foreign to me. i've met more than a few "subs" who say they love being treated like a piece of meat. Again, i don't relate, but desire and need can take on so many forms. The scenario i describe appeals to me, but some would be very turned off by it, others would say it's sick.
Did I offend you?
Not at all. it's really easy for me to agree with much of what you said simply because my wiring doesn't respond to Dom's like the OP at all, rather i run the other way or shut down. And i have met lots guys (i'm gay, so i know a lot more guys) identifying as "subs" and/or "slaves" who would claim to love everything the OP wrote, and agree. i don't relate, but apparently some do, so i figured maybe the OP's "slave" might be one of those? idk, but this is an open forum, no offense taken here.
"YallSlenderGuy" is my southern brother.