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missmaji​(switch female)
8 months ago • 09/15/2019 3:21 am
missmaji​(switch female) • 09/15/2019 3:21 am
Hhmm. Well, I'm Mint. I don't exactly remember finding this site, but I opened up my laptop one morning and my profile was up and logged in, so here I am. I'm happy to be here, and most people have been lovely so far. I hope to get to know even more people, since I have a slow weekend (for once) coming up. I enjoy talking to people about BDSM, or life in general as well.

I hope everyone is having a lovely morning/afternoon/night.
Attaboyforu​(switch male)
8 months ago • 09/15/2019 6:30 am

Greetings from France and NYC

Attaboyforu​(switch male) • 09/15/2019 6:30 am
I am new here, and I like what I have seen. I wish more people were in France but such is my fate. I am a sub, but I am also a dom, I guess it's a switch then. I look forward to meeting everyone on line and hopefully in person (s)
8 months ago • 09/16/2019 1:58 pm
Villanelle​(staff) • 09/16/2019 1:58 pm
Thank you for all the lovely intros! And welcome to everyone who has joined us icon_smile.gif We hope you enjoy your time inside THE CAGE!
Knightsundere​(sub male)
8 months ago • 09/18/2019 11:42 pm
Knightsundere​(sub male) • 09/18/2019 11:42 pm
I'm an artist who doesn't meet enough people working from home to find those into kinky stuff, so I just found this place by milling around. I'm a 19 year old bisexual sub who likes cold weather \o/
Kudos to the site admins, though. Slick/modern site considering the competition, and the profiles can be pretty extensive (I made good use of mine if anyone wants to know more?). Thanks for having me ^_^
8 months ago • 09/20/2019 4:06 pm
Villanelle​(staff) • 09/20/2019 4:06 pm
Welcome Knightsundere! Very detailed, interesting profile!
Saraya​(sub female)
8 months ago • 09/21/2019 4:22 pm
Saraya​(sub female) • 09/21/2019 4:22 pm
Saraya here! I have been here a few weeks but not made an introduction.

I am still exploring where exactly I fit but I am a sub. I live in an area where it isn’t exactly talked about and even if it were there would be a large lack in acceptance.

I am enjoying my time here and have felt very welcomed! I have been lucky and had many respectful interactions as I make new friendships and at some point maybe more.

Thank you for having me! ❤️
Miki​(masochist female)
8 months ago • 09/22/2019 6:13 am
Miki​(masochist female) • 09/22/2019 6:13 am
I do this once in a while.. I'm one of those "charter members"-- and I wish to extend to all those who posted here an heartfelt Welcome!
8 months ago • 09/23/2019 3:14 pm
Villanelle​(staff) • 09/23/2019 3:14 pm
Welcome Saraya - and thank you for your kindness Miki!
8 months ago • 09/24/2019 12:23 am


studebaker • 09/24/2019 12:23 am
Hi everyone, I am new to the site and to the scene as who I am. I may need to do a little more than introduce myself but here goes....

I am 45 years old and have had a few different exploratory times in previous relationships. None that opened the revelation of D/s that this recent set of events has unfolded. I think what has happened to us and the character composition of myself and my girl are of something that a perfect storm could be described. Our relationship is very normal and innocuous from the beginning, and I was happy with that, she turned me on in every way just being herself. But the person she is is one that strives to please me, and although I didn't notice at first, was very steeped in submissive and obedience. She left clues here and there but it never "really" came out till the last year.... What happened in the last year? She got wrapped up in a terrible court case and sent to prison. yup. Prison. How she ended up there is something for other discussions, but what has happened when she went is like a tidal wave of D/s. The feeling of being the one to provide for her, the turn on from knowing shes subjugated daily, the controls, the way she learned to approach me in calls, everything has really amplified. Our letters and communication, its like we are sliding into this lifestyle in a very natural and exciting way. In some other "silver lining" it is a way we are coping with the situation, but even if I wanted to ignore it, everything now is really turning me on, and I believe so for her as well.

So why am I "here"? Well I know our relationship is at this point she wants me to be the one to be her "sir" and I want it too. I want to come here and learn from folks in the lifestyle what things I can pick up to have fun now, and also later when I get her home. Maybe I can share some things about my experience so far as well... As you can see I am up for that.

I have looked for couples that have the same "situation" as I do and remarkably I have not seen or met any but ONE!! In my mind you would think that this would be a very advanced form of D/s when the sub is literally in prison hahahh