1 month ago • 09/16/2020 7:28 pm
DjDom(dom male) • 09/16/2020 7:28 pm
Good morning, all. My name is Bret, and I’m a married Dom from nw of San Antonio. Ironically, my wife is a submissive. I’ve had some D/s experiences in the past, but very few have been truly rewarding. Been on this site twice; the first time I wasn’t myself, the second time I learned from and revealed my true self. Really enjoy the mental and emotional side of the D/s relationship, and that makes the physical all the more worthwhile.
I learn something almost daily in the bdsm works, whether from my wife and her Dom, or reading on a site or talking with other members here. And while I currently am looking for a submissive again, I also know that “the wand chooses you” so to speak. The vast array of people on this site further cements my belief that I’m in the right place and with the right people.
I’ve always enjoyed being in control, whether as a coach, a parent, a manager or a spouse...and yet, all the while, learning that to lead you must understand how to serve, how to connect and earn that valuable trust of those of whom you’re entrusted. No one will care how much you know til the know how much you care. That’s why the LS is a part of my life, why my wife and I can play together and here, separately, and still enjoy that which we seek.
Whether you’ve read anything by me or visited my profile before or not, I welcome feedback, not too proud to take critiques—or compliments, lol—and make myself a better Dom, man and person. Thank y’all for being the right place for me to grow.