Am I wrong?
3 hours ago • 07/14/2020 10:25 pm
acquiesced(sub male) • 07/14/2020 10:25 pm
My ex has a new guy now. We were together for 10 years, ending 3 years ago. Our relationship was powerful and intense in this world. We were Dom/sub for the first part, and Domme/sub for the last. All to try and make her happy. We were married. Then she became a ghost. About a year after she left me, I learned that she was telling people that I abused her. Specific horrible stories. Gut wrenching. All false. I was a wreck for a year after that. Nearly everyone we knew in common in the vanilla world hasn't spoken to me since. Now, the stories of her exes before me all make sense. Similar, but different lies for each of them, going back to her childhood (father and brother) and through 3 marriages.
So someone told me she has a new guy. Both of them hiding out, you know, social media style. Hard to contact him but I found a few avenues. I want to warn him, or at least give him some perspectives on what I know about her pathological lies. But I'm sure he's enthralled by her right now as I was initially, and everyone else. She uses sad stories (lies) about her past to reel in the next one. I'm sure her girlfriends are all saying "he looks like nice guy, not like that last one you had." Same things they said about me. Of course, I'm sure he won't contact me because of how good she is at poisoning the well.
So am I wrong to try and contact him?
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