DomForHer(dom male)
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5 years ago •
Jul 31, 2018
Honestly if that makes them uninterested then they are not for you. Your family comes first no matter what. Even though you are a sub you should have standards and requirements just like any other relationship. You don’t want to settle. I have kids and my sub has a kid of her own as well. Our relationship did not start out in this dynamic but evolved into it. Like someone else said think about what you want in a dom and what is and is not acceptable. Don’t settle for less. You will find you dom in time. Good luck.
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SouthernClass
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5 years ago •
Jul 31, 2018
So i'm new here, but I think it shouldn't be. I agree with some of the others that expectations are so important. It's a big enough deal for me that it's numero uno in my profile. And I'm definitely not bothered by people who don't care to speak with me socially or more seriously. I think being authentic and true to you is so much more important. Thus far I haven't heard anything ugly, unkind, or derogatory about me having kids (I have two elementary youngins) and wouldn't given respect or attention to someone who is. Make no apologies for you or what you want and need. Best wishes
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KayMariexoxo(sub female)
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5 years ago •
Jul 30, 2018
Thank you for your input. I truly appreciate it. And you make a very valid point
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LittleLex(sub female)
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5 years ago •
Jul 30, 2018
The Doms I have talked to did not care that I have children, in fact all had children of their own. If the ones you are talking to drop you as soon as you mention you have kids...sounds to me like they’re doing you a favor anyway. There are good ones out there, I promise
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SirHossapple(dom male)
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5 years ago •
Jul 30, 2018
Depends
In my opinion, no it shouldn't. Doms might look at it from a point of view,
1. They can't be bothered with it. 2. They want all your time 3. They are really not into you. My I make a suggestion, you need to ask yourself, what do you want in a Dom. When you come up with the answers, review them regularly and always keep them updated. Remember, you are still in control until you surrender. You are a package deal. If they want you bad enough, they will discuss it with you and develop a plan to accommodate you and your needs. |
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KayMariexoxo(sub female)
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5 years ago •
Jul 30, 2018
Question...
Is a sub having children really that much of a big deal in this lifestyle??? I get asked if I have children and when I say yes I never hear from them again. Does anyone else have this problem?
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